2nd Class

This week we got to the adoption center a few hours early to turn in paperwork and left with more to complete.  This is a much smaller amount than we previously had and it is a lot more fun.  We have to fill out paperwork for a state we lived in for roughly one year, re-write a short form, and the fun part is completing a personality test.  The personality test is taken with “yourself” in mind then “your spouse” in mind.  Our amazing case worker said it was so she could tell how well we knew our spouse, I’ll keep you updated with that.  

We decided to get our home study started next week and have already scheduled our “couple interview.” 

Our second adoption class was absolutely amazing and could easily be one of our favorites.  We got to meet a beautiful family who adopted (2 sibling groups) 4 children who are now teenagers.  This was an amazing visit because many of us in the class had fears and questions about the teenage years and “open” adoption.  The couple shared so beautifully of God’s guidance through their open adoption and His plan in their lives. 

We admire this couple and could have visited for hours.  It was so encouraging to meet someone with a life story matching ours (almost exactly) and seeing in them what we want our life-story to look like in a few years.   

First class, first blog.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it.”  Psalm 127:1a

Our Family of Promise began over nine years ago when we signed “Our Marriage Covenant” which hangs and has hung in every home we have lived in since our wedding day. 

It reads:

Believing that God, in His wisdom and providence,

 has established marriage as a covenant relationship, a sacred and lifelong promise, reflecting our unconditional love for one another and believing that God intends for the marriage covenant to reflect His promise to

never leave us nor forsake us. 

We, the undersigned, do hereby reaffirm our solemn pledge to fulfill our marriage vows.  Furthermore, we pledge to exalt the sacred nature and permanence of the marriage covenant by calling others to honor and fulfill their marriage vows.

Under this are each of our vows (which I love) and signatures, then it is bordered by signatures of those who where there on that day.

Fast forward…

Today we are taking steps to grow our family through adoption, another lifelong promise. 

We attended our first adoption class this past Monday and just finished a majority of our paperwork.  The class theme was “Open Adoption.”  At first we thought this meant co-parenting but there are so many levels to openness.  

The verse that best sums up the first class is

“God sets the lonely in families.” Psalm 68:6

Special thanks to my dear sister in law who put this blog together.  As I feel more comfortable writing about our life on the world wide web I will be blogging about some of what happens in between and after our next 6 classes.  Please keep us, the baby and the bio. family in your prayers.